is being a mom to these three little people.  I know it's totally cliche but so true.  When things get crazy, I sometimes find myself taking a deep breath, a step back and  refocusing on what really matters. Ultimately them, their happiness, well being, them knowing without a doubt that they are loved and important.  It is so easy to brush them away without thinking about how that makes them feel when I'm taking a call or in the middle of a task, so I've tried, really tried to be present.  To be with them and only them, not answer the phone when we are together so that they feel and know that they are the priority.  Of course everything isn't perfect sometimes life happens, I don't want them to think the world revolves around them either, it is a tough balancing act, but I do notice a difference in our relationship when I focus on making sure we have undistracted quality play time without texts or any other interruptions.  I will never forget the sheepish smile on Taylor's face when we were having a discussion and she heard my cell (work) phone ring, she paused for a moment and then asked if I was going to answer it. "No, I want to talk to you, you are the only person that matters right now."  She glowed, and continued, right then and there I saw the importance of being present.  This is turning into a soap box sob story but I am so passionate because things have felt so rushed lately, I'm trying with all of my might to enjoy those everyday moments that are racing by. So this is a glimpse of us, roller skating, playing with friends, karate, and dance class.  I wish for everyone a fabulous mother's day surrounded by the ones you love.